Disabled man here who is on a med cocktail that has caused some interesting sexual side effects. Before the meds I never had a problem getting hard, staying hard, or cumming. Now, I am in a situation where my libido has tripled BUT I suffer the occasionally "coke" dick AND it takes forever to have a release. The "coke" dick thing is easily solved by a cock ring. No problems there. What I am left with is the length of time it takes for climax. Gone are the days of 15 min, now the average is an hour+, with the longest time non-stop to finish was 2 whole hours. Ain't nobody got time for that.I saw some videos of this online and it was making men climax in as little as 3-5 min. Well. I have not gotten that lucky just yet, but after just three uses i can tell things have improved for me. This is also a slight learning curve till you find the magic spot for you, it is not always where you think it would be.So what is this thing? It is basically a cupped vibrator for guys. It wraps around the shaft and you can cup/palm it with your hand or lay it flat. Does it have strong vibrations? Ooooh yeah! The whole thing does not vibrate, but more like a pulsing plate that pumps up and down hitting your member. The build quality is a mix of soft rubber and hard plastics. It was a little heavier than expected but needs to be to store the battery and contraption it takes to put out vibrations that strong.You can use with or without lube. It cleans up super quick. Comes with a drawstring bag to keep it in when not in use or charging.Pros:Strongest Vibration I have felt outside of a corded Hitachi wand. I believe there is 7 or 8 modes or patterns to pulsing. I like three of them so far. It even has a "turbo" mode where you hold down the "+" button for a few seconds and the depth of the pulsing is increased. I don't plan on using that feature all the time, but nice feature to have when you just got to get over that last hurdle.Easy to Clean. So much quicker than cleaning a Fleshlite style toy.It works as intended. It has cut the time down about 20% so far. I have a feeling that will get even better as i learn which ways i like to use it best.They advertised this is the first toy with disabled men in mind as well and it seems to be true. It is strong enough to do most of the work, freeing you up for anything else. If you are sitting up you can lay it flat on a blanket or pillow and let it do all the work for you.Nothing in life is perfect and while this is amazing, there are two things that need to be mentioned.Cons:How it charges. It charges via a USB cable with a magnetic end and two pins. The two pins are suppose to line up on the bottom of the toy and it charges via contact. While the magnet is strong enough to click it to the device, the magnet is not strong enough to keep it there. As soon as you try to move or set the device down the connection breaks the cable moves very easily, the slightest jostle will break connection. I advise to lay the device down on somewhere to charge and bring the cable to it instead of hooking cable to it and then trying to set it down. This is the only glaring flaw in the whole device. Version 4 of this, when they eventually make it, needs to find a better way to charge via cradle or actual plug in cable. The toy is amazing, charging it is the opposite. This seems like the only oversight in an other wise fantastic product. Not worth taking a star off for, but close.Noise. I get that something this powerful is going to be loud, i just did not fathom it being as loud as it is. lol. If you live with a room mate or family and they get anywhere near your room they are going to hear it. It starts plug-in-wand loud and goes up up to jet engine loud. This is not a con so much as a warning. This is NOT a stealth toy. If you don't care or live alone you have no problems then. If you do live somewhere with other people, turn up some music or a movie or something. Have some type of distraction or white noise in the background. Maybe also put a blanket over it if need be to muffle it. No Joke, this baby is loud.Summary:If meds, age, or other factors have made it harder for you to get off, this is the toy for you. One size fits most, and there are more ways then you would think to use this. So far, I am very pleased. I look forward to what this company comes up with next. Just know charging is annoying, but worth it for what this toy can do, all we can hope for is the next revision implements a better charging solution.Final tips.. Go dry first and play with each setting and see if you find one you like. If you need lube, just use a drop or two at first. I found using a thicker lube, more like an anal lube, that warms up is the most satisfying so far.Okay, how to be tactful and write a review on this item which will make it through the Amazon community guidelines :)My wife and I are currently undergoing IVF treatment, and as part of the process (when they do egg retrieval) I had to accompany her to the center and provide them with a... ahem... "specimen", which is my "contribution" to the reproductive process for them to use in the IVF lab.Now, I don't know about other guys, but showing up at the doctor's office, being handed a specimen cup, and directed to the local bathroom to "produce" my contribution just doesn't do it for me. Producing it at home with your partner's assistance isn't an option, because they want the sample "fresh" for the IVF process.Since I am not a trained seal that performs on command, I was seriously concerned that I would show up with my wife at the IVF center and not be able to overcome the mental hangup (for lack of a better phrase) of the sterile cup in the non-descript bathroom... Believe me, the LAST thing your wife wants to hear after she has been shot up with IVF hormones for the past two weeks is "sorry honey, I just couldn't do it".After talking to her about it, we decided to invest in one of these massagers. Without getting too graphic, let me just say that it really did the "trick". The continuous stimulation even after reaching the "point of no return" really adds to the intensity, and "contribution" volume. After all was said and done, the specimen cup handed to me was overflowing with my "contribution", and the nurses were giving me an appreciative glance each time I walked by the nurses' station.So, for me, it was a one-time "use", but well worth the money spent, and absolutely lived up to its claims. Would highly recommend this for any guy in a similar situation.Sorry, no photo, I doubt it would get published lol.At first I was skeptical so I was looking over the reviews by other people before I made my purchase in order to help me decide after all that's a lot of money to spend on a toy and I wanted to dispel some of the rumors other people posted,first to the person who said they couldn't even get it to turn on you need to read the instructions if you click the button it doesn't turn on but if you hold the button down like it says it will come on,second for the person who said it's made of hard plastic that's not true either, the back is hard plastic but the rest of it is rubber,I was almost disappointed in the product when I first received it I thought I could just put it on and it would make the magic happen but you have to move the oscillator around to see where it will stimulate you the most and then it works quite well...I'm in my mid-50s and I've had ED now for over a decade and it can be very scary for a man to suddenly lose libido and you can't get it up anymore you feel like you're not a man...I've tried the pills and they work at first and then you develop an immunity and you have to take more and keep taking more and then when you stop your left off worse than you were when you started so this is actually a much better way to go you can even be flaccid and get stimulated,I like to use a folded up satin nightgown for lubricant which is very stimulating and makes for no cleanup,just throw the nightgown in the wash...The product is well made and waterproof and I trust will be worth the money in the long term!