I don't leave reviews often but this one earned it!Wife and I are in our 40s. Didn't really need the assistance because our sex life is pretty strong, but I wanted to try a new adventure to bring a little "new" back so looked similar items up and she reluctantly agreed. I looked for weeks and settled on this item mostly because of price but also because it seemed less bulky than some others and I didn't want some big piece of machinery hanging off me while we got to business. Also figured for the price if it didn't work out, no harm no foul. It's a little larger than it seems from pictures and it does slightly reduce the "depth" of thrusts, but from my wife's mouth when she was finally done shaking and able to re-compose herself... "DO NOT get rid of that! And don't be surprised I found I sneak it on you at night some time! But you DO NOT get to use the remote!"Haha, I think you could say we're a satisfied customer :-D.She particularly liked changing the settings with the remote to find the sweet spot. She does not use vibes because she is pretty sinsitive down there, so adjusting it on the fly worked great. I don't think we would have enjoyed it as much if it was not remotely controlled, either that or I might have given her a heart attack on the higher settings lol.Build quality seems fine and it is silicone, which was a worry to me because my wife has a latex allergy. I think if it only lasts 5 uses I'll be a little disappointed with it, but initially it's definitely worth the money, especially considering allot of other units are $50 or more, which was a bit much for a roll of the dice.I would like if the vibrating bit (not ring) was about a bit smaller. But mostly just to keep it a little more out of the way.